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MORAL LIFE OF THE JAPANESE.
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his choice, he summons a mutual friend to act as nakodo. In this case the engagement is usually of very short duration; frequently not more than a few days or weeks. The nakodo arranges
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everything—the dower, the wedding itself, and the subsequent entertainment. The engaged couple may see each other, but never alone. Their previous acquaintance may have been a long one, and the young people themselves may have come to a mutual understanding: but to all intents and purposes the groom elect, prior to the betrothal, has merely been a friend of the family in general. The Occidental custom, or rather usage, which
