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BOOK OF ETIQUETTE

The acknowledgment should be hand-written on white note paper, and couched in a cordial, informal manner.


THE DINNER DANCE

The dinner dance seems to be one of society's most favored functions. For this affair it is necessary for the hostess to issue two sets of invitations; one set to the people she wishes to entertain at dinner, and one to those whom she wishes to invite for the dancing only. The dinner invitation would be the regular engraved dinner card with the words "Dancing at ten" written in the lower left-hand corner. The dance invitations would be her regular at-home cards with the words "Dancing at ten" written in the lower left-hand corner.

A very popular method of inviting people to informal dance parties—a method that has won favor among hostesses who are fond of inviting just a few young men and women in to dance and enjoy simple refreshment—is that of using the joint visiting card of herself and her husband and writing in the lower left-hand corner:

Dancing at eleven
April the fourth

This may be written in in ink—and as an invitation the card may be used to take the place of the written invitation or the formal third-person note.


THE DEBUT DANCE

An ordinary dance invitation with the calling card of the débutante included may be used for the occasion of in-