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WEDDINGS
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may keep a list of the names of the donors with the names of the gifts opposite, but she must be absolutely sure that she is thanking the right person.

If the honeymoon is to be only two weeks or thereabouts the bride may wait until her return to thank her friends, but if it is to be of long duration she should write the notes of acknowledgment as soon as she finds it convenient to do so. These personal notes—and a personal note is the only proper way to thank one for a wedding present—are usually written by the bride, but she should always be careful to introduce her husband's name unless the gift was a very intimate one for her alone. The following note is a graceful way for both husband and wife to express their gratitude:

July 1, 1921,

Dear Rosalind:

George and I both wish to thank you for the lovely picture. When we return from Atlantic City we shall hang it in our living room where all of our friends can enjoy it with us. We hope that you will be among the first to visit us in our new home.

Very sincerely yours,
Annie Beard Hill.


Sometimes the groom receives personal gifts from friends of his. To these he writes notes of thanks in his own name.


THE HOME WEDDING

Home weddings can often be made as impressive as church weddings. With correct decorations the most