which is damaged, but he who is deceived. If then you set out from these principles, you will bear a gentle mind towards anyone who reviles you. For say on each occasion, So it appeared to him.
XLIII.Every matter has two handles; by the one you can carry it, by the other you cannot. If your brother wrongs you, do not take this by the handle He wrongs me, for by that handle you cannot carry it; but take it rather by this, He is my brother, nourished with me, and then you will be taking it by a handle by which you can carry it.
XLIV.There is no nexus in the following reasonings: I am richer than you, therefore I am superior to you; I am more eloquent than you, therefore I am superior. But the nexus is rather in these: I am richer than you, therefore my wealth is superior to yours; I am more eloquent than you, therefore my language is superior to yours. But you are not wealth, and you are not language.
XLV.Does a man bathe himself quickly? Then say not Badly, but Quickly. Does he drink much wine? Then say not Too much, but Much. For
