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tion of venial sins alone, do not make things out to be worse than they are in reality. But bear in mind that the value of any confession depends not so much on the completeness with which all little sins and slight imperfections are enumerated, but on the thoroughness of the contrition which is felt, and the strength of the determination to avoid in future both every mortal sin and also every besetting sin or fault to which you are addicted.

5. Especially observe the following rules: (a) Never make your confession in too vague a manner, without a definite statement. Do not confuse temptations and sinful inclinations with definite sins, (b) Do not accustom yourself to enter into details respecting the smallest imperfections, and at the same time perhaps to pass over certain bad habits and besetting sins. It is far more necessary to lay greater stress upon those faults to abstain from which the voice of God more especially warns you. (c) After your confession is finished, do not immediately return to your ordinary occupations, nor engage in distracting conversation. Rather let your mind dwell on your good resolutions, and be intent on thanking God from the bottom of your heart for the benefits He has conferred upon you.

Follow these rules and you will make a good confession, and confession will seem less difficult to you. Finally, go to confession regularly and frequently.