possessing: a certain faculty, love, augment his love and
care for himself, he will therel»y diminish his power of
loving and caring' for others, not only in proportion to
the love he has transferred to himself, but in a much
greater degree. Instead of feeding others a man eats
too much himself; by so doing he not only diminishes
the possibility of giving away the surplus, but, by
overeating, he deprives himself of power to help
others.
In order to love others in reality and not in word only, one must cease to love one's self also in reality and not merely in word. In most cises it happens thus : we think we love others, we assure ourselves and others that it is so, but we love them only in words, while ourselves we love in reality. Others we forget to feed and put to bed, ourselves — never. 'Ilierefore, in order really to love others in deed, we must learn not to love oiwselves in deed, learn to forget to feed ourselves and ]»ut ourselves to bed, exactly as we forget to do these things for others.
We say of a .self-indulgent person accustomed to lead a luxurious life, that he is a 'good man ' and ' leads a good life.' liut such a person — whether man or woman — although he may possess the most amiable traits of character, meekness, good nature, etc., cannot be good and lead a good life, any more than a knife of the very best workmanship and steel can be sharp and cut Avell unless it is sharpened. To be good and lead a good life means to give to others more than one takes from them. lUit a self-indulgent maH accustomed to a luxurious life cannot do this, first because he himself is always in want of much (and this not on account of his selfishness, but because he is accustomed to luxury and it is painful for him to be deprived of that to which lie is accustomed) ; and secondly, because by consuming all that he receives from others he weakens himself and renders himself unfit to labour, and therefore unfit to serve others. A seif- indulgent man who sleeps long upon a soft bed, eats and drinks abundance of fat, sweet food, who is always dressed cleanly and suitably
