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ECONOMIC PROBLEM : THE HOUSEWIFE
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know which way to turn"; but if children were not too many and houses were more convenient, and all housekeeping tools more adequate, and the housekeeping money sufficient, the life of the mother who is also the housewife would be a happy and healthy life; she could hope to do her work really well, and most women would prefer it to any other.

What are the causes of the present discontents among housewives? Many indeed. They feel that the woman who is not only bearing and rearing the children, but also buying and cooking and washing and cleaning and mending for the whole family, should have some of that independence which comes from handling the money she has earned and saved. I remember a man at a street-corner meeting once heckling me with the question whether a woman had not all that she required if she had "love an' her keep." He was a candid fellow, and when I asked him whether "love an' his keep" would satisfy him, and whether he did not like to have some of the money he had earned as "spending money," to do what he pleased with, go to a football match,—or even make his wife a present,—he laughed and said, "Well it takes a woman to think of such things! Of course I do,— I never looked at it in that light before." The mother while she is bearing children should be "kept" in health and strength; the woman who is making wealth by personal services just as much as any other worker, should be paid for her services. If this