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SEX-ANTAGONISM : MAN'S PART
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the interests of the sexes really are opposed, that any suggestion for legislation in the interests of women is met by the outcry that it is against men. The recent debates on the Maternity Benefit are admirable illustrations of this. When it was proposed that the thirty shillings, to be devoted to the care of the mother, should be given direct to the mother, there were some men who exclaimed that this was "interfering between husband and wife," and others, that it was "legislating against men." This shows an extraordinary confusion of mind; for the only men "legislated against" in such a provision are the bad men, who would, if they were given the chance, steal the woman's benefit. No good husband would be aggrieved at his wife's own money being given into her own hands. As why indeed should he? No woman feels aggrieved that her husband should have his wages paid into his own hands. If anyone thinks that the money is in reality his, because of the paltry fourpences that he has paid (and of which the working housewife has, by her work, contributed at least half), he should read the words of Medea—

"And then, forsooth, 'tis they that face the call
 Of war, while we sit sheltered, hid from all
 Peril!—False mocking! Sooner would I stand
 Three times to face their battles, shield in hand,
 Than bear one child."

While civilisation is young, and human beings still scarcely conscious, it is natural for the stronger to have the illusion that he will be the gainer by using his strength, even tyrannically, against the